Boy or Girl Dog? Does Gender Matter When Choosing the Best Dog?
Boy or Girl Dog: Choose the Best Gender
Which makes the better pet, boy or girl dog?
How does one go about making the
decision to get a boy or a girl?
This is a hotly disputed subject and
most people’s sentiments are just personal opinions. When it comes to these gender wars, people’s
attitude about sex differences is based on their personal experience with their
They fail to
acknowledge the difference in the personality traits of dogs. Every dog is unique with an exclusive set of
genes and environmental experiences that make them who they are.
Does gender really make a difference?
Look at all the banter I have heard:
The females are gentler...The males are gentle
are more loving…The females are sweeter
The females make better pets...The males
make better pets
are more loyal...The females are the most loyal
The girls are moody…
The boys are more dominant, the girls
are more dominant
The ladies are friendlier
The Guys are easier to train
The boys are more aggressive
Girls do better with families of young children
Males are more playful or energetic than
Males mark their territory, hump, or
urinate in the house.
Who is Spreading Rumors about Boy or Girl Dog Differences
Dog owners of course, but what surprised
me the most was that breeders tell potential puppy buyers which gender would be
best for them.
Dog trainers also have an
opinion on this too. Most of these views are based on previous dog
Worst, I believe it is bloggers who truly don't know or understand dogs. They may be the most to blame.
Boy or Girl Dog: Any Real Differences
Frankly no, but first let’s look at the
Frankly, I was confused. Maybe the matter of gender preferences is
breed specific. I had to find out for myself, so I searched the internet for opinions based on particular breeds. What I found
should not have surprised me, but it is clear, there is no truth to any
of these views based on breed.
Boy or Girl Dog? Google Searches
A quick Google search
revealed that at
least 715,000 sites on the Internet show information about dog gender.
That’s no small number. That does not include all the sites that are
breed specific. For those, I had to put
in specific breeds: Which makes the better pet, boy or girl
German Shepherds. That added to the
Rottweilers, Dobermans, Pitbulls,
Chihuahua, Beagles, Shih Tzu, …. Well the list goes on. Neither makes a better pet, but there are
some real differences in gender.
Every field has its special jargon so I've added a few words here that are appropriate when speaking about gender in dogs:
Bitch: Female dog
Dog: Male dog
Intact: Non-altered male or female dog; For females, intact means that the girl is capable of mating, whelping (giving birth) and mothering a litter of puppies; Intact males have not been castrated
Spay: To surgically remove the uterus and ovaries of a female dog.
Neuter: To surgically remove the testicles of a male dog.
The Real Truth about Girl Dogs
The Truth about Girls Or "Bitches" (Appropriate name for a female dog)
heat cycles twice a year
(except those dog breeds that are considered more primitive such as the
Basenji which only has one cycle much like the Grey Wolf).
Unless they have been altered
or spayed, they will continue to have these heat cycles throughout their lives.
females in heat may wander away from home looking for a mate.
are more expensive than neutering. A spay is a
surgery where the ovaries and the uterus are
removed, making the dog sterile.
females or those that have not been spayed do
have some hormonal changes that can affect their moods.These mood changes are
very individualized. Some can be clingy or more loving around the time of their
The Real Truth About Boys
The Real Truth about Dogs (Boy dogs)
wander away if they smell a
female in season (heat)
Neutering a male
dog is less costly than removing the
ovaries and uterus of a female dog. Neutering or castration involves removing
(unaltered) not neutered males can be distractable if a female in heat is nearby giving the
impression that they are harder to train.
who live with intact females will mark in the house. Some females do this too. If neutered at
around six months of age, boys will not mark in the house. Girls won’t either.
will hike their legs when they urinate. If boys are neutered around five or six months
of age, they squat to urinate for the rest of their lives.
can become aggressive and fight over an intact female in heat.
can be a
little larger than females (This is breed specific; In many breeds the
dogs (males) and the bitches (females) are the same height,
The Truth About Boy or Girl Dogs
Both can be just as easy or hard to train. Individual temperament is more important than
sex differences when it comes to training.
Both boys and girls can be equally friendly,
reserved, timid, or wary. Differences
can be found between breeds and individually within breeds. Most attentive breeders will be able to pick
up on individual differences in a litter of puppies very early on in the pup’s
Both boys and girls can be aggressive or not
depending on individual differences, not
sex. Boys do tend to fight more with
other boys and girls do tend to compete more with other girls, but again, much
of this fighting is the result of other problems that do not relate to gender.
Why People Prefer Boy or Girl Dogs
I still didn’t answer my original
question though and that was why do some people prefer one sex over the
So, I went on a search once more
to find out how people decide which gender to choose.
Not surprisingly, most people make
unconscious decisions based on gender.
I’ve always just
had girls, I just think I know what to expect with girls more than boys.
I love to give
belly rubs and it’s just easier for me to do
this on girls.
I have a girl so I
want another girl
I have a boy, so I
I have a boy, so
now I want a girl
So, is one gender better than another?
Unless you purchase a dog for breeding purposes, both girls and boys make excellent pets.
If cost is an option, choose a boy. The neuter surgery is easier and less costly.